“I think I cried, like, every night.”Gwen Stefani Reflects on the Struggles of Pregnancy During Her Singing Career and the Guilt of Working After Second Child

Gwen Stefani’s journey through motherhood and her music career is a compelling narrative of resilience, creativity, and the pursuit of balancing personal aspirations with family responsibilities. At 54, Stefani opened up about her experiences during her first pregnancy with her son Kingston, now 17, on an upcoming episode of “The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast,” as reported by E! News.

She vividly recalled the challenges she faced while rehearsing for her Harajuku Lovers Tour in 2005, describing the struggle of navigating her first pregnancy amidst the demands of her career. This period marked a series of firsts for Stefani: working with a new band, incorporating dancers, undergoing costume changes, and most notably, embracing motherhood.

“It’s the first time I had to work with this band, the first time I ever had dancers, the first time I ever did costume changes, the first time being pregnant,” she said, adding, “I think I cried, like, every night.”

The birth of Kingston in 2006 was a turning point for Stefani, who felt a renewed sense of purpose and creativity, leading her back to the studio to work on her 2006 album, “The Sweet Escape.” However, the arrival of her second son, Zuma, in August 2008, introduced Stefani to the pangs of ‘mom guilt,’ especially as she reunited with her band No Doubt and felt the weight of being away from her children.

The internal conflict Stefani faced during the creation of the “Push and Shove” album with No Doubt highlights the emotional toll of balancing professional commitments with the desire to be present for her children. Despite these challenges, Stefani’s creative spirit remained undeterred, culminating in the completion of the “Push and Shove” album, which would be No Doubt’s last before their hiatus. The band’s announcement of their reunion at the Coachella Music Festival in California in April marks a nostalgic return to their roots.

Stefani’s personal life took a miraculous turn with the pregnancy of her third son, Apollo, at the age of 43. Inspired by Kingston’s nightly prayers for a sibling, Stefani described Apollo’s conception as a true miracle, emphasizing the unexpected blessings that continued to unfold in her life. Following her divorce from Gavin Rossdale in 2015, Stefani’s journey led her to “The Voice,” where she met her now-husband, Blake Shelton.

Their relationship and subsequent marriage in July 2021 added another chapter to Stefani’s story of finding love and happiness amidst the trials of life. Stefani’s reflections on her experiences as a working mother in the music industry reveal the complexities of navigating fame, creativity, and family life. Her ability to find joy and fulfillment in both her personal and professional endeavors serves as an inspiration to many, showcasing the possibility of achieving a harmonious balance between the demands of motherhood and the pursuit of one’s passions.